Reasons Why Men Lost Respect For Ladies

My uncle told me how hard it used to be for them to woo a lady during their youth days. He said; then, ladies command a whole lots of respect. Before a guy could walk up to any lady, he needs to summon lots of courage and morale, he will make sure he is properly dressed and his grammar intact. Most times, while talking to a lady they shake, not because of fear but because of UTMOST RESPECT for her. Then you hardly hear of heartbreak or divorce. Because most of the relationships led to marriage. Guys only wooed ladies they truly loved and ladies accepted men for who they truly were. My question now is, why is our generation different?

Ladies have so debased themselves in their desperation for fame and fortune that they lost their respect. Imagine a lady sending her nude picture to a guy, showing her private parts like goods being displayed for sale, in the name of he is my boyfriend and the so called boyfriend will show it to his friends. You see beautiful ladies dancing naked for fully clothed guys in music videos, all for fame/money, later you hear men saying, “what have we not seen”.

  

Some ladies no more wait for a man to ask them out, they now boldly ask men out. Some are living with men, performing wife duties to men who haven’t paid a dime on their head. Some date senators, alhajis, ministers, all sort of rich men, flirting around because of money. Making it easy and cheap for married men to cheat on their wives, so long as the men can give them money. You think people are not watching you? Some are ready to be baby mama to celebrities or any rich guy they like, hmmm.. Some ladies see sex as nothing. it’s now trade by barter, use what you have to get what you want. Let me stop here.

 

And you expect men to fully respect such ladies? You have to respect yourself first. The respect you command is a function of who you are. If you treat yourself like an object, men will play with you. If you respect yourself, they will honour you. Men are naturally flirts, it’s in their gene, it’s our duty to tame them. If you give a man yourself, he will eat, clean his mouth and still call you a cheerful giver. Be wise! Carry yourself with dignity. You are going to be MRS of one man tomorrow, give him something to be proud of. And also you will be a mother someday, what will you teach your children?

Think about it.
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